Better Sex through Loving Touch

New World sex educator Jaiya demonstrates how couples can have better sex through loving touch.

How to Give an Anal Massage

 Svetlana Ivanova says that the anal area has many nerve endings and can be a wonderful addition to erotic massage if your partner is willing to explore some touch in that area.

Erotic massage or sensual massage is the use of massage techniques to achieve or enhance sexual arousal. Your skin is the largest organ of the body with thousands of nerve endings, andtouch stimulates all of your senses. The anal area has many nerve endings and can be a wonderful addition to erotic massage. See if your partner is willing to explore some touch in that area. It doesn’t have to mean that they will be willing to have anal sex later. It just means that they are willing to try having more pleasure. Read more

Erotic Massage: How to Create a Relaxing Environment

One of the keys for female orgasm is being relaxed. That's why erotic massage can prepare a woman for amazing orgasms. However, she won't be able to relax if the room you're in isn't right. Gabrielle Moore reveals how to set up the perfect area.

Erotic massage preps your girl for amazing orgasms – but she won’t be able to relax if the room you’re in isn’t right. Find out how to set up the perfect area.

Before you begin your erotic massage, it is very important that you prepare the room or location in which you will be performing the massage on your partner. Your ultimate goal will be to create a soothing and relaxing environment that encourages both romance and release of stress, anxiety, and inhibition.

The first and most important thing you will want to do when preparing for the massage is to schedule the massage during a time when you and your lady have will have a couple of hours of alone time together. You don’t even have to tell her what you’re up to. Just tell her you have a surprise for her a couple of days in advance, get your massage supplies ready, and be willing and able to perform when the time arrives. Read more

G-Spot Massage and Genital Armoring

Sex educator Victor Gold reveals how G-spot massage can help heal genital armoring.

G-spot massage is an intimate connection of a new kind in our culture, and women vary greatly in their responses to it. In a typical G-spot massage session a woman may experience anything and everything, from intense emotional and physical pain to rapture and sexual ecstasy. In order to understand why, it’s helpful to have a clear understanding of armoring; a process whereby past traumatic experiences are stored in the muscular tissues of the body. If you have ever received a deep tissue massage, you know that during the sometimes painful probing of deep tissues, the simplest touch to some seemingly innocuous part of the body when sensitively and expertly applied may release a torrent of emotion and long-suppressed memory. Read more

Male Genital Massage

Tantric teacher Jaiya gives some tips and techniques for male genital massage.

How to Give the Perfect Massage

An incredible massage could be your ticket to nirvana. Here's how to make it happen.

Admit it, you've probably given your woman more than one half-assed rubdown thinking it was all you had to do to warm her up for sex. But you can do better. "Think of massage as sex without the penetration," says Juan Urosa, a licensed massage therapist from New York City's acclaimed Great Jones Spa. Do it right, and she'll be putty in your hands.

Soak her muscles
Get her relaxed before you amaze her. "Prepare a bath and pour in some essential oils," Urosa says. (You'll find them in any "chick" store.) "The bath will get her muscles ready for the massage." And it gives you an excuse to towel her off.

Make her comfy
Have her lie on your bed, facedown. Soften your hands with massage oil, then start rubbing her feet, not her back. "We have thousands of nerve endings in our soles that stimulate the entire nervous system," Urosa says. "Massage each foot, then slowly move up to her calves, then legs, and so on." Keep the progression slow. Read more

Tantric Massage Tips

Tantra teacher Al Link gives some Tantric massage tips that can make both giving and receiving a massage more pleasurable.

Massages are easy to do as well as fun to give and receive. You do not have to have any training to give your mate a thoroughly satisfying massage, although if you would like more guidance there are some excellent books and videos available.

Giving each other a massage as a first course of sexual play adds to your entire experience. Both partners are able to relax, leave the world behind, and be in the moment together. With massage, a woman’s body begins to awaken for arousal—her erotic side receives the time and attention she needs to “get in the mood”. A man whose body is relaxed so that his energy can flow more freely is able to last much longer. Read more

How to Give an Erotic Massage

Sarah Gibson offers simple massage techniques that range from the sensual to the sexual. For more specifics, I have written six articles about Tantric massage.

As the nights get colder you can earn some serious brownie points from your partner by wooing her with an erotic massage. Read on for simple massage techniques that range from the sensual to the explicit - and adapt them to your own desires.

Warm Up

An erotic massage involves getting up close and personal with your partner - so the clothes should come off right away. Very few women want to get naked in sub-zero conditions so make sure you pre-heat the room to a decent temperature before hand. Also, make sure you warm the massage oil; either in the microwave or under a hot tap; and test the temperature before you put it on your partner’s skin – to avoid any nasty accidents. Read more

Creating Sensual Spaces for Lovemaking

Jaiya discusses how to turn your bedroom - or any other room - into a sensual space for lovemaking.

Breathing Love Meditation

Try this breathing love meditation with your partner to experience deep intimacy.

Female Genital Massage

Jaiya gives some advice on giving a great female genital massage.

Tantra Sexual Healing Techniques

When it comes to the best out of your sexuality, Tantra sexual healing techniques may be the answer. The flow of sexual energy can be unblocked by Tantric sexual healing massage, says Dr. Maulik Vyas.

Sexuality is just more than physical urge and that is where, the species home sapiens differ from others! Unfortunately, nowadays, dysfunction of sexual organs in humans is becoming common. All thanks to bad lifestyle and dietary habits. Nevertheless, there is a solution to get rid of anxiety and depression about performing various sexual activities. Tantric Healing Session is one of the most powerful tools to overcome anxiousness and nervousness in sex and bring divinity in sensuality.

Performing like a bull on the bed is never so easy as even a man who appears to be a macho may feel shy undressing himself against his sexual partner. There are lots of factors that come into consideration when it is all about feeling the peak during sexuality. Low self-esteem, fear of how to perform and perplexity in expression sexual love –all make lovemaking difficult. This, in turn, may impact badly on sexual relationship ending it permanently. Read more

How to Give Her a Tantric Massage... in the Bathtub

Gabrielle Moore explains how a man can give his woman a Tantric massage... in the bathtub.

One of the ways a woman gives herself a relaxing treat is by soaking in a long, hot bath so you can take this opportunity to really giver her a treat by preparing a bath for her. Of course, with other ‘extra treats’ as only you can provide.

How to Prepare a ‘Proper’ Bath for Her

No guys, a bath is not just filling the tub with hot water and pouring some bubble bath solution in it. If you’re going to do this, do it good and create the right ambiance for her.

First, close the windows and blinds and submerge the whole bathroom in darkness. Next, light some candles. They can be scented or not depending on what you use for the… scented oil you want to place on the burner or oil diffuser. Read more

4 Sensual Massages to Banish Srress and Boost Your Sex Life

Women's Health describes four sensual massages that can banish stress and boost your sex life.

On the list of life's greatest pleasures, massages rank up there with wine and chocolate. But a good rubdown does more than just ease achy muscles. Depending on the technique, it can melt away stress, get you in the mood for sex, or function as an especially erotic kind of foreplay. "Massage is the ultimate bonding experience," says certified massage therapist Lisa Skye Carle. "Pampering each other feels nurturing and intimate, and you're bound to discover loads of new and unexpected erogenous zones along the way—it's the ultimate primer for sex." Whether you want to wind down or get all wound up, there's a massage here to meet your needs. Read more

Tantric Massage and Your Health

Yoga and fitness master Stela Star says that Tantric massage has many health benefits that lead to a longer, rejuvenated, and improved lifestyle.

Tantric massage is in many ways similar to other forms of massage therapies. Tantric massage is believed to bring about health benefits and a relaxed feeling. This is because if one is happy sexually then the above experienced feelings are believed to follow. Pleasurable experience is thus put to the core with the goal of achieving personal growth and development. Tantric yoga lies at the core of tantric massage. There have however been forms of tantric massages that have been practiced by the enlightened and the ignorant that are degraded and have lost the real import of the tantric yoga and massage. Read more

Sensual Touch with Massage Oil

Francisco Bujan of Vital Coaching gives a simple technique to connect with your Tantric partner using massage oil.

Here is a simple approach to connect with your tantric sex partner.

This technique can be used as a foreplay for intimacy, by itself or alternated with other energy building techniques.

Simply sit crossed legged, half lotus or lotus facing each other.

You can be totally naked (ideal), top less or simply with arms and other parts of your upper body naked. Read more

His ‘n Hers Tantric Massage

Maya Silverman reveals how to enjoy your own Tantric Night of Pleasure.

Setting the Scene For Pleasure

Set the scene for your Tantric Night of Pleasure by taking the time to prepare a deliciously sensual environment. Put some thought into creating a warm, relaxing, and seductive space within which to begin your Tantric Yoni and Lingham massage, or His ‘N Hers Tantric Massage. Read more

Tantric Massage: How to Give Your Partner the Ultimate Sexual Experience

Do you want to give your partner the ultimate experience in sheer pleasure? Tantric massage will intensify your relationship both in and out of the bedroom, and it’s easy to do, says Maya Silverman.

The tantric massage may sound complicated, but it’s actually not all that hard to accomplish. The tantric massage was developed centuries ago in Asia as a vital ritual that served to balance out a person’s physical and emotional energy, which eventually lead to healing, tranquility and the kind of sack sessions that would make Casanova jealous.

There’s also an additional bonus: tantric massage can free your lover’s mind from the stress of daily life and melt away tension, thus increasing your partner’s chances of achieving a bed-shattering orgasm.

While the actual practice taught in the tantras (the ancient texts from where Tantra comes from) can take a very long time to perfect - in fact, several followers of the practice have been at it for decades – there are a few tricks and tips that you can easily use tonight in order to give the kind of tantric massage that will have your lover purring with pleasure. Read more

Tantric Massage - Part 2

Part 2 of Jaiya's demonstration of Tantra massage. Part 1

Tantra Massage - Part 1

Jaiya demonstrates Tantra massage.