4 Ways to Take Sex to a Deeper Level

Tantric sex is about taking sex to a deeper level. Here are four ways to create that intense, intimate connection between you and your partner.

Animalistic sack sessions belong waaay up on every Cosmo girl's gotta-have-it list. But slow, soulful encounters shouldn't get second billing just because they don't leave cracks in the bedroom walls. "This kind of sex is deeper than connecting physically," says New York City sex therapist Joy Davidson, PhD, author of Fearless Sex. "It's about losing yourself in the moment and bonding emotionally as well." So do yourselves a favor and, some nights, put the following soulful-sex advice into action. Read more

Orgasm: The Cure for Hunger in the Western Woman

Nicole Daedone is the founder of OneTaste and OM and the author of the author of Slow Sex: The Art and Craft of the Female Orgasm. She speaks on the topic "Orgasm: The Cure for Hunger in the Western Woman."

How to Have Slower, More Sensual Sex

Why slowing down in bed could help your sex life.

If you want to make sex a more sensual experience, slow down. Take your time. Banning the quickie from your sex life will have a startling and sensual effect, taking your lovemaking to the next level.

Slow sex isn't about endurance, marathon sessions or complicated positions. It's about really being there in the moment, enjoying one another fully. It's about taking the time to touch and to kiss. The point isn't just to have sex, but rather to feel real sensual joy. Read more

If Your Yoni Could Speak, What Would It Say?

Like a bottle of fine wine, great sex takes time. If your yoni could speak, it would probably say, "Slow down!"

In The Vagina Monologues, playwright Eve Ensler reported that she asked 600 women this question: “If your vagina could speak, what would it say?” The answer she overwhelmingly heard was, “Slow down!”

Ah, the proverbial frustration of every vulva and the woman to which it belongs; just because a gal has a female fun button does not mean it should be treated like a Fisher-Price toy. When it comes to sensual satisfaction, there’s an art to clitoral/vaginal/ female-genitalia persuasion. For every lover out there who has learned how to make our parts hum so sweetly, there are a dozen Tom, Dicks and Harrys (no pun intended of course) who could benefit from some lust lessons.

Diana Daffner has been rescuing couples from the sexual doldrums and dissatisfaction for 15 years. The author of several books and tapes on tantra sex, including the most recent, Tantric Sex for Busy Couples, she offers this sexy advice: Read more