Non-Ejaculation, Sexual Bliss, and Benefits

Tantra teacher Lokita Carter answers a question about the benefits of non-ejaculation for males.

QUESTION: “Can one avoid ejaculating during intercourse and still enjoy sexual bliss? How long does it take to master this art? What are the benefits and have people been successful doing it?” G.T. from Texas

ANSWER: Dear G.T.,I had a feeling that you would write another question; and here we are, three!

Yes, sexual bliss is available to you whether or not you ejaculate! Read more

Semen Retention and the Multi-Orgasmic Male

Jacques Drouin, Founder of Tantric Arts of Love, describes the experience of semen retention and male mutiple orgasms from his twenty-five years of personal experience.

Is Semen Retention Harmful?

Times Online sexperts Suzi Godson and Dr. Thomas Stuttaford give advice to a couple who practice Taoist sex without ejaculation and orgasm, and want to know if it is harmful. Suzi Godson answers by dismissing Tantra and Taoism:

I have to admit the whole tantra, mantra, Tao thing eludes me. Regular readers may remember that the last time we got a question such as this I hauled my poor husband to a Tantric sex workshop with disastrous results.

Dr. Stuttaford grudgingly allows that semen retention isn't harmful, but his negative bias shows when he uses the word "glorified" in his response.

The philosophy and disciplines glorified by the terms Tantric and Taoist sex are designed to allow a couple to have long sessions of lovemaking by prolonging the plateau stage of sexual response without having a complete orgasm and ejaculating. Advocates of Taoist and Tantric sex explain that the aim is to maintain a state of ecstasy for as long as physically possible and not to be preoccupied by the need to score an orgasmic goal.

Like Victorian schoolmasters and doctors, who believed that masturbation was a cause and a symptom of criminality and psychiatric disease, the Tantric and Taoist enthusiasts suggest that semen has a value in helping to maintain a man's health and vitality. Their supposition is that if semen is constantly wasted, the luckless fellow will be weakened and risk being reduced to a feeble wreck, a shadow of his former self. You may be assured that this is medical nonsense, and semen retention is not harmful. Read more

Despite their designation as "experts," Godson's and Stuttaford's answers illustrate why you should send your questions about Taoism and Tantra to practitioners - not sex advice columnists.

Tantric sex: How to Preserve Your Sexual Energy

Life coach Francisco Bujan explains to men how they can preserve their sexual energy.

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