Tantric Sex: A Different Perspective

Dr. Mitchell Tepper offers a different perspecttive on Tantric sex.

Many of us were taught before we became disabled or in adolescence that sex entails excitement that grows more and more intense until it results in a climax. The goal is usually seen as orgasm and the release of pent-up sexual tension. We learned about sex in a culture that treats it as sinful and unspeakable, yet uses a medical model to describe it. According to the medical model of sex and orgasm, a buildup of muscular tension leads to a peak, followed by a release - ejaculation for men and contractions of the muscles surrounding the vagina for women. Since what science can measure is primarily physical in nature, orgasm is seen basically seen as an autonomic reflex, a mere spasm of genital contractions. The medical model doesn’t work for all of us. When our disabilities are accompanied by loss of genital sensation, limited movement or inability to ejaculate or have genital contractions, we may feel like giving up. The sexual pleasure we learned about or once knew has become inaccessible. Tantric sex - based on the esoteric teachings of several eastern religions - provides an alternative way to experience sexual pleasure and bring new meaning to a loving relationship. Read more

A Beginner's Guide to Tantric Sex

Tantric sex attempts to bring two loving partners together in more than just a physical manner. The word Tantra is Sanskrit and is derived from the root word tan meaning "to extend, expand, spread, continue, spin out, weave, to put forth or manifest.” The idea is to extend your mind and encompass your body to achieve the ultimate satisfaction. In the practice of Tantra, there is a sort of "being- consciousness-bliss" which has the power of self-evolution and self-involution (learning and expanding and looking into oneself). Therefore, the evolution of self helps to bring two people closer together.

The 4 Best Positions for Reaching a Tantric G-Spot Orgasm

A Tantric orgasm is a full body energy experience. G-spot stimulation is one way to access Tantric orgasms. The G-spot (Grafenberg spot) is a small, lima bean-shaped area on the upper side of the vaginal wall (tummy side), approximately 2-3 inches in. This spot feels different in texture than the rest of the vagina. It is spongy and coarser in texture than the rest of the vagina, which is normally how it is found. When the G-spot is stimulated, usually through hard pushing or constant rubbing, it causes intense orgasmic feelings that most women say exceeds a normal orgasmic response.

How to Increase Penis Sensation During Sex

Delayed ejaculation, difficulty achieving orgasm during partner sex, seems to be much more common than it used to be. The skin of the penis is constantly exposed to friction of some kind or another. Even when men are not active, clothing can chafe and rub the skin. This repeated friction causes a toughened layer of skin to build up, like the calluses that develop on the palms of the hand. Because of this, the nerve endings beneath the skin of the penis are less able to experience sexual stimulation, leading to decreased sensation.

Two Tantric Exercises for Sexual Stamina

Tantra is one of the most spiritual and energetic approaches to sex and life. Tantric sex attempts to bring two loving partners together in more than just a physical manner. One prolongs the act of making love and focuses on, rather than dispelling, potent orgasmic energies moving through you, thereby raising the level of your consciousness.

Please Your Woman with Tantric Perineal Massage

If you want a simple way to spice up lovemaking with your woman, perineal massage might be the technique you're looking for. Located between the vagina and the anus, the perineum is packed with pleasurable nerve endings. In fact, the clitoris often extends down through a woman’s labia and through her perineum and anus, allowing her to experience pleasure in all these areas. You can stimulate this often overlooked erotic body part in two ways: while you're performing oral sex and while having sex from behind (if her legs are spread to allow access).

A Fun Tantric Experience to Try Tonight

After watching this Tantric demonstration, you can do the full 15 minute practice with your partner.

The 3 Basic Tantric Sex Practices

Many people have the wrong idea about Tantric sex. The purpose of Tantric sex is not to maximize your erotic pleasure or achieve a more intense orgasm, though it usually does both. Rather,Tantric sex is aimed at bringing about a unity of spirit through the sexual encounter. To achieve this, various Tantric sex techniques are used in three basic practices.

Two Thrusting Techniques That Drive Women Wild

This probably won't come as a surprise to you, but few men think much about the thrusting techniques they use during sex. Thrusting techniques are how you thrust your penis in and out during sexual intercourse. Most men go for the fast, all in and all out approach with no change of speed, depth, or rhythm.

5 Ways to Enhance Sexual Intercourse

Although foreplay of various types can be very pleasurable and even orgasmic, when it comes to sexual activity, intercourse is considered the "main event" by most couples. Not all couples are not getting as much out of as they could, though. With a few simple "hacks," sexual intercourse can be more fun, exciting, and pleasurable for both partners. Here are five simple ways to enhance sexual intercourse.

Lost Tantric Sex Rituals

Rituals of many kinds have been an important part of the Tantric tradition since the very beginning. Tantrics practiced rituals of many types, including many that were totally innocent and not related to sex in any way. Most of these ancient rituals are as old as Tantra itself. These other rituals may have involved yoga, meditation, chanting, and many other activities that were not controversial to the uninitiated. 

How to Give Your Man a Tantric Testicle Massage

Testicles are one of the most sensitive parts of a man’s body. Knowing this, many women are afraid to massage their men’s testicle for ear hurting them. The irony is it’s this sensitivity that makes men feel pleasure when their testicles are stroked or massaged. The testicles on a man are one of the most erogenous spots if touched and stimulated correctly. The truth is that testicle massage can be a sensual experience for a man if a lover is doing it. It can be done by itself, or as part of an erotic massage, a lingam massage, or a male G-spot massage.

3 Kama Sutra Secret Positions

The Kama Sutra is an ancient Indian book that was written to teach men how to have a happy marriage. It’s chiefly famous for describing the arts of lovemaking. Despite being centuries old, the Kama Sutra is still just as fun to try today. There are many sex positions described in the chapter covering the sexual union between couples, but there are three positions which are emphasized and described as being better than all the others. These are known as the three secret positions.

The Best Sex Position for Deep Penetration

Deep penetration can be very passionate and exciting for both men and women as it can provide entirely new sensations and higher levels of pleasure. Besides being very satisfying and rewarding, it can also provide a sense of being deeply connected with each other, both physically and emotionally. The key to deep penetration is in the way the woman's body is positioned.The Crab on Its Back sex position is the absolute best for deep penetration.

Tantric Cunnilingus: Worshiping the Yoni

The Yoni or womb is the seat of absolute divine presence and power. - Adthi-Para-Shakti

Yoni is the Sanskrit word for the vagina. In Tantra, the yoni is a sacred part of the female body, which must be cherished and honored. Yoni worship is a very ancient tradition in India, which is still alive today. Both men and women benefit from yoni worship. It is an honoring and active participation in the dance between cosmic complementary polarities.

My Tantric Sex Ebook Is Available!

In popular culture, Tantric sex is often associated with marathon sessions of lovemaking in a variety of different positions,. The reality is Tantra is so much more than that. Tantra is a gateway, not just to sexual ecstasy, but to personal healing and fulfillment.

I have been writing about Tantra and Tantric sex at Tantra: Gateway to Ecstasy since 2007. I have been asked numerous times by readers about whether I give sessions or classes about Tantric sex. I don't, but what I have done instead is write a book Tantric Sex: A Guide to Tantra Lovemaking Secrets and Practices. This year I decided to revise and expand the book to include additional material to order to share even more Tanra lovemaking secrets and practices....

Pompoir: The Art of Milking the Lingam

Pompoir is the art of “milking” the lingam of your partner

with your yoni. (Lingam and yoni are Sanskrit for penis and vagina.) While both partners are still, the woman grips and massages her man's erection with rhythmic, rippling contractions of the pubococcygeus muscle (PC) and other pelvic floor muscles. (This rippling effect also happens during an intense orgasm in a woman.) The rippling causes a kind of milking action that can be felt by the lingam.

Healing Your Woman with Tantric Yoni Massage

Yoni (YO-NEE) is the Sanskrit word for the vagina. In Tantra, the vagina is a sacred part of the female body, which must be treated with care and respect. The Yoni massage is a sensuous form of intimacy that builds trust between partners and brings them closer together emotionally and spiritually.

Transcendent Sex: How Sex Can Generate Higher States of Consciousness

Steve Taylor Ph.D. explores how sex can generate higher states of consciousness.

Because of its allegedly pornographic content, D.H. Lawrence's novel Lady Chatterley's Lover wasn't published until 33 years after his death, in 1963. But far from being pornographic, the book is about the spiritual power of sex, how it can free us from our usual sense of separateness and bring us a heightened awareness and sense of connection to the world. Lawrence spoke of ‘the strange, soothing flood of peace, the sense that all is well, which goes with true sex.' And in the novel he describes how Lady Chatterley's vision of the world is completely transformed when she's walking home after making love to her gamekeeper:

The trees seemed to be bulging and surging, at anchor on a tide, and the heave of the slope of the park was alive...The universe ceased to be the vast clock-work of circling planets and pivotal suns which she had known. The stars opened like eyes, with a consciousness in them, and the sky was filled with a soft, yearning stress of consolation. It was not mere atmosphere. It had its own feeling, its own anima. Everything had its own anima. Read more

Tantric Sexual Union Meditation

Tantric Sexual Union Meditation is a sexual practice from Hindu scripture.

This is a description of a Tantric Sexual Practice from a Hindu scripture, Gupta Sadhana Tantra, as recounted in the book: Spiritual Sex, by Nik Douglas.

“Woman should always be worshipped, firstly by washing her feet, massaging and caressing her. Then, by worshipping her mouth, breasts, navel and her yoni.
She is always to be viewed as the Goddess Shakti, while her devotee imagines himself to be Shiva. He should always ask her permission before having intercourse with her.
He should treat her with consideration and see to her satisfaction. And when he offers his semen as an oblation, as a sacrifice, it is offered to the great Goddess in the form of woman.
This behaviour leads to the acquisition of all desired objects, freedom from disease, the love of women and the 8 great occult powers.”

In order to practice this, I would suggest taking it very literally. You can create a beautiful ritual form of lovemaking, using the instructions in this quote as your inspiration. You will need minimum 2 hours for this ritual. Read more