Increase the Intimacy in Your Sex Life

Try getting up close and personal with this with this emotional-intimacy-enhancing sex position, says Kate Gilbert.

There are times when a girl needs throw-down and then there's times when you want to feel better connected to your partner during sex. Sorry boys – but it's true. We like to feel close to you. Aren't we awful?!

Try this together sex positions and boost the intimacy and emotion in your sex life. Read more

12 Sensual Massage Dos and Don'ts

Think of a sensual massage as a slow tease ... of sexier things to come.

Sure, you can turn up the heat in your relationship by forking over a handful of cash for an expensive couple's massage. Or you can take matters into your own hands — literally — and give your partner a sensual massage right in the comfort of your own home. After all, who knows your lover's pleasure points better than you?

Massages are great for circulation, the nervous system and, in general, easing stress. But that's not all a good rubdown can do, according to Massage Therapist Jeanetta Goddette. "Most of all, massage can make us feel loved," she says. "It enhances the intimate connection we share with our partner." Even novice masseurs can give a do-it-yourself rubdown a go; just follow these steps. Read more

Better Sex through Loving Touch

New World sex educator Jaiya demonstrates how couples can have better sex through loving touch.

Fat Sex 101

In our society, it can be very hard for fat people to own their sexuality. Here, Marianne offers a guide for enjoying sex at any size, with any size partner.

Even when someone “cares about my health,” what it often really comes down to is that they do not want to have sex with a fat person: “You can’t make me want to fuck a fat person.”

This is actually true. If you don’t want to fuck me, I cannot force you to want to fuck me. And, indeed, I would not want to force you because that would be icky and gross and far too complicit in perpetuating rape culture for me to be into it. The thing that these folks don’t seem to get? There are actually plenty of people who want to have sex with fatties.

But for some reason, fat sex seems to be the most threatening topic ever for a whole lot of people. Fat sex gets fetishized and turned into a taboo topic. Maybe that’s why I’m so eager to talk about it all the time — because fat sex is often just sex like anyone else may be having. Read more

See my post The 6 Best Sex Positions for Large Couples for more on this topic.