How to Give a Tantric Clitoral Massage

All women are capable of having an orgasm from clitoral stimulation. In fact, the sole function of the clitoris is to give a woman pleasure and bring her to orgasm. The purpose of clitoral massage is to make her clitoris the center of attention. It can be done by itself, or as part of a Yoni massage, a G-spot massage, or an erotic massage.

How to Give a Sensual Erotic Massage

The only thing that tops a massage is a sensual erotic massage, says Svetlana Ivanova, according to her,, and you don't need to be a massage therapist to give one either.

Everyone loves getting a massage. It relaxes the body, stimulates circulation, and feels great. The only thing that tops a massage is a sensual erotic massage. It's a great way for you and your lover to have a sexy time together and make her feel good. You don't need to be a massage therapist, either, to give a sexual erotic massage. Just follow the steps below. Read more

4 Massage Techniques for Better Sex

Rubbing a woman the right way can turn her on and lead to better sex, says Desirée Gallas.

Admit it, you’ve probably given your woman more than one half-assed rubdown thinking it was all you had to do to warm her up for sex. But you can do better. “Think of massage as sex without the penetration,” says Juan Urosa, a licensed massage therapist from New York City’s acclaimed Great Jones Spa. These 4 massage tips will help turn her on so you both have better sex. Read more

4 Rules to GUARANTEE the Best Erotic Massage of Her Life

Sex coach Nick Hardwick says that following four rules will guarantee that the next erotic massage you give will be the best of her lifel

Everyone loves getting a massage. It relaxes the body, stimulates blood flow and natural pain killers, and feels great. The only way it can get better is if you throw a little bit of sex in there! 

Women love a man with slow hands, and an erotic massage can put any tired, grumpy woman into a quivering, ecstatic girl in no time. If you master this technique for an erotic massage, you'll never be single again ... guaranteed.

Here are four rules to follow so you can give her the best erotic massage of her life: Read more

3 Tantric Sex Tips for Men

Tantra has existed for more than 5,000 years. Tantra is defined as "the weaving and expansion of energy." Originally, Tantra was used to awaken the body's connection with the universe and to enhance spirituality. Today, Tantra is widely used to enhance emotional connection and sexual pleasure. When used correctly, Tantra can increase intimacy between couples and create intense erotic states. Here are three Tantric sex practices that men can use to increase emotional intimacy and sexual pleasure for their partners.

12 Sensual Massage Dos and Don'ts

Think of a sensual massage as a slow tease ... of sexier things to come.

Sure, you can turn up the heat in your relationship by forking over a handful of cash for an expensive couple's massage. Or you can take matters into your own hands — literally — and give your partner a sensual massage right in the comfort of your own home. After all, who knows your lover's pleasure points better than you?

Massages are great for circulation, the nervous system and, in general, easing stress. But that's not all a good rubdown can do, according to Massage Therapist Jeanetta Goddette. "Most of all, massage can make us feel loved," she says. "It enhances the intimate connection we share with our partner." Even novice masseurs can give a do-it-yourself rubdown a go; just follow these steps. Read more

How to Give an Anal Massage

 Svetlana Ivanova says that the anal area has many nerve endings and can be a wonderful addition to erotic massage if your partner is willing to explore some touch in that area.

Erotic massage or sensual massage is the use of massage techniques to achieve or enhance sexual arousal. Your skin is the largest organ of the body with thousands of nerve endings, andtouch stimulates all of your senses. The anal area has many nerve endings and can be a wonderful addition to erotic massage. See if your partner is willing to explore some touch in that area. It doesn’t have to mean that they will be willing to have anal sex later. It just means that they are willing to try having more pleasure. Read more

4 Magical Massage Techniques

Women's Health says these four massage techniques will bring stress relief and boost your sex life. They're that magical!

On the list of life's greatest pleasures, massages rank up there with wine and chocolate. But a good rubdown does more than just ease achy muscles. Depending on the technique, it can bring stress relief, enhance your sexual relationship, or function as an especially erotic kind of foreplay. "Massage is the ultimate bonding experience," says certified massage therapist Lisa Skye Carle. "Pampering each other feels nurturing and intimate, and you're bound to discover loads of new and unexpected erogenous zones along the way—it's the ultimate primer for sex." Whether you want to wind down or get all wound up, there's a sexy massage here to meet your needs. Read more

Erotic Massage Tips and Techniques

New World Sex Educator Jaiya offers tips and techniques for optimal erotic massage and sensual touch.

Erotic Massage: How to Create a Relaxing Environment

One of the keys for female orgasm is being relaxed. That's why erotic massage can prepare a woman for amazing orgasms. However, she won't be able to relax if the room you're in isn't right. Gabrielle Moore reveals how to set up the perfect area.

Erotic massage preps your girl for amazing orgasms – but she won’t be able to relax if the room you’re in isn’t right. Find out how to set up the perfect area.

Before you begin your erotic massage, it is very important that you prepare the room or location in which you will be performing the massage on your partner. Your ultimate goal will be to create a soothing and relaxing environment that encourages both romance and release of stress, anxiety, and inhibition.

The first and most important thing you will want to do when preparing for the massage is to schedule the massage during a time when you and your lady have will have a couple of hours of alone time together. You don’t even have to tell her what you’re up to. Just tell her you have a surprise for her a couple of days in advance, get your massage supplies ready, and be willing and able to perform when the time arrives. Read more

How to Give the Perfect Massage

An incredible massage could be your ticket to nirvana. Here's how to make it happen.

Admit it, you've probably given your woman more than one half-assed rubdown thinking it was all you had to do to warm her up for sex. But you can do better. "Think of massage as sex without the penetration," says Juan Urosa, a licensed massage therapist from New York City's acclaimed Great Jones Spa. Do it right, and she'll be putty in your hands.

Soak her muscles
Get her relaxed before you amaze her. "Prepare a bath and pour in some essential oils," Urosa says. (You'll find them in any "chick" store.) "The bath will get her muscles ready for the massage." And it gives you an excuse to towel her off.

Make her comfy
Have her lie on your bed, facedown. Soften your hands with massage oil, then start rubbing her feet, not her back. "We have thousands of nerve endings in our soles that stimulate the entire nervous system," Urosa says. "Massage each foot, then slowly move up to her calves, then legs, and so on." Keep the progression slow. Read more

Tantric Massage Tips

Tantra teacher Al Link gives some Tantric massage tips that can make both giving and receiving a massage more pleasurable.

Massages are easy to do as well as fun to give and receive. You do not have to have any training to give your mate a thoroughly satisfying massage, although if you would like more guidance there are some excellent books and videos available.

Giving each other a massage as a first course of sexual play adds to your entire experience. Both partners are able to relax, leave the world behind, and be in the moment together. With massage, a woman’s body begins to awaken for arousal—her erotic side receives the time and attention she needs to “get in the mood”. A man whose body is relaxed so that his energy can flow more freely is able to last much longer. Read more

How to Give an Erotic Massage

Sarah Gibson offers simple massage techniques that range from the sensual to the sexual. For more specifics, I have written six articles about Tantric massage.

As the nights get colder you can earn some serious brownie points from your partner by wooing her with an erotic massage. Read on for simple massage techniques that range from the sensual to the explicit - and adapt them to your own desires.

Warm Up

An erotic massage involves getting up close and personal with your partner - so the clothes should come off right away. Very few women want to get naked in sub-zero conditions so make sure you pre-heat the room to a decent temperature before hand. Also, make sure you warm the massage oil; either in the microwave or under a hot tap; and test the temperature before you put it on your partner’s skin – to avoid any nasty accidents. Read more

Pleasurable Perineal Massage

Research has shown proven benefits for doing prenatal perineal massage, which can be done by you or your sexual partner. Jaiya explains how to do a gentler, more pleasurable perineal massage.

4 Sensual Massages to Banish Srress and Boost Your Sex Life

Women's Health describes four sensual massages that can banish stress and boost your sex life.

On the list of life's greatest pleasures, massages rank up there with wine and chocolate. But a good rubdown does more than just ease achy muscles. Depending on the technique, it can melt away stress, get you in the mood for sex, or function as an especially erotic kind of foreplay. "Massage is the ultimate bonding experience," says certified massage therapist Lisa Skye Carle. "Pampering each other feels nurturing and intimate, and you're bound to discover loads of new and unexpected erogenous zones along the way—it's the ultimate primer for sex." Whether you want to wind down or get all wound up, there's a massage here to meet your needs. Read more

Tantric Massage: How to Give Your Partner the Ultimate Sexual Experience

Do you want to give your partner the ultimate experience in sheer pleasure? Tantric massage will intensify your relationship both in and out of the bedroom, and it’s easy to do, says Maya Silverman.

The tantric massage may sound complicated, but it’s actually not all that hard to accomplish. The tantric massage was developed centuries ago in Asia as a vital ritual that served to balance out a person’s physical and emotional energy, which eventually lead to healing, tranquility and the kind of sack sessions that would make Casanova jealous.

There’s also an additional bonus: tantric massage can free your lover’s mind from the stress of daily life and melt away tension, thus increasing your partner’s chances of achieving a bed-shattering orgasm.

While the actual practice taught in the tantras (the ancient texts from where Tantra comes from) can take a very long time to perfect - in fact, several followers of the practice have been at it for decades – there are a few tricks and tips that you can easily use tonight in order to give the kind of tantric massage that will have your lover purring with pleasure. Read more

Tantric Massage - Part 2

Part 2 of Jaiya's demonstration of Tantra massage. Part 1

Tantra Massage - Part 1

Jaiya demonstrates Tantra massage.

Tantric Massage Step-by-Step

Many people are interested in receiving or giving a Tantric massage. The difference between therapeutic massage and Tantric massage is that Tantric massage is not only about healing, but also about sensuality and pleasure.

Tantric Massage is a ritual of receiving sensual kundalini (sexual) energy. In this ritual, you are given time to explore your body without goals. Tantric massage adds energy healing and tantric coaching to the ecstasy of receiving a nurturing and awakening sensual massage. It creates an environment in which you can release stress and feel more alive in your body while staying fully present to your sexual energy.

A Tantric massage is often the first step in learning to be a sexual being without going into fantasy or trancing out. It teaches you how to truly feel your body as it is being touched and aroused sexually, to be in the present moment, aroused and alive. Read more