5 Ways to Increase Female Sexual Pleasure

Understanding a woman's sexual response can be difficult, for both men and even women themselves. After all, many women fail to achieve orgasms through partner sex. Also, while women usually know what they do like, they are often as clueless as their partners about what they might like. Also, many women are hesitant about trying new things sexually because they are afraid they might not like them. These five tips are for men and women who really want to increase a woman's sexual pleasure.

How to Give a Tantric Clitoral Massage

All women are capable of having an orgasm from clitoral stimulation. In fact, the sole function of the clitoris is to give a woman pleasure and bring her to orgasm. The purpose of clitoral massage is to make her clitoris the center of attention. It can be done by itself, or as part of a Yoni massage, a G-spot massage, or an erotic massage.

Orgasmic Breathing

For better orgasms, follow this step-by-step guide to orgasmic breathing.

Breathe in. Breathe out. Breath is everything, and when you practice awareness of this powerful life force, you gradually gain knowledge and experience of how to use your breath as a tool for relaxation, healing and of course…. enhanced pleasure! Read more

How to Unlock Your Pelvic Floor Muscles and Use Them to Help You Orgasm

Amanda Monteiro reveals how to unlock your pelvic floor uscles and use them to help you orgasm.

I’ve been on a quest to become more connected with my body and feminine energy in the hopes that I will reach that never-ending well of self love.
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I decided that if it were true, that my body is my temple, then I wanted to be sure that I was tending to its upkeep in the best way possible. Before allowing any individual to cloud my judgement when it came to expressing myself via emotions or actions, I wanted to make sure I was fully grounded in who I am physically, mentally, and sexually. The latter is hardly self explored. Read more

3 Types of Orgasms Women Should Experience

Jade Lotus reveals the threetypesof orgasms women should experience and the ancinet Chinese trick for achieving them.

For many women, an orgasm is a fleeting experience, even a mythical creature. Some women even ask questions like, "What is an orgasm?" and, "What does an orgasm feel like?" because they have never experienced one. For other women, they're even wondering how to orgasm in the first place.

A female orgasm is typically defined as a series of rhythmic contractions or pulsations in the vagina or "an intense pleasurable release of sexual tension ... accompanied by contractions of the genital muscles."

I would add to this that orgasm is about a build up of energy that suddenly starts to move, causing these vibrations and involuntary contractions.

Sexologists classically describe three kinds of female orgasms: Read more

4 Female Hot Spots That Aren't the Clitoris

Svetlana Ivanova reveals four female pleasure spots besides the clitoris for couples to explore.

Clitoral stimulation is the primary means by which women achieve orgasm. That no doubt explains why lesbian sex is more orgasmic for women than straight sex. A female lover is almost certain to know what the clitoris is, where it is, and to have some idea about how to stimulate it. That doesn't mean that the clitoris is the only erogenous zone that can trigger orgasms in women, however. These four female hot spots that aren't the clitoris also have huge orgasmic potential. Read more

Everything You Need to Know About the A-Spot

You've probably heard of the G-apot, but what about the A-spot? Here's everything you need to know to find it and stimulate it.

The Anterior Fornix Erogenous zone is an area of sensitivity that is located at the back end of the clitoris, where the wall begins to curve upwards. The A-Spot is beyond the G-Spot, just above the cervix, and can be located during anal sex. It’s known as the equivalent of the male prostate; however, it can be found during PIV penetration and foreplay as well.

Only 11% of women have discovered this zone, which is quite honestly, a shame. We have zones, people, let’s find ’em and awaken ’em! Read more

Effortless Orgasms Are Possible With the Ocean Breath

Tantra teacher Carla Tara reveals how effortless orgasms are possible with the Ocean Breath.

Can breathing help you have orgasms?

Tantra is an ancient art that teaches ways to use your vital energy to uncover your natural state of bliss that is often clouded by our limiting beliefs and the problems they engender. Read more

Can a Simple Breathing Trick Give You Better Orgasms?

 Can a simple breathing trick give you better orgasms?

As many enterprising people with clitorises know, there are various things you can try to have a better orgasm—and twice as many that will get in the way of it happening at all. Even if you're a pro at the O, experts say you might be hampering your climaxes without realizing it. To determine whether you fall into that camp, mentally transport yourself to those moments when you realize, oh yes, you're about to orgasm, there's absolutely no going back. Now, focus on what your breathing is usually like when you're right on the brink. Are you taking deep, full breaths? Or are you holding your breath instead? If it's the latter, you could be undermining your orgasms. Read more

The 12 Different Types of Orgasms It’s Possible for a Woman to Experience

A Canadian sexologist says that women can experience twelve different types of orgasms.

Excuse me, but women can have 12 different types of orgasms and I’m so confused.

Dr Carlen Costa, one of Canada’s leading sexologists and relationship experts, says that vagina-bearers wrongly assume that orgasms are limited to the clitoris and G spot.

But there are so, so, many more. Read more

Top 10 Orgasm Tips for Women

From hot baths to sex cocktails, Marie Claire lists its top ten orgasm tips for women.

No one actually needs to rally for the wonders of an orgasm when there's enough research—as psychologist and sex therapist Mary Jo Rapini explains—that the tremor-inducing release of serotonin and endorphins can boost the immune system and decrease stress and anxiety.

But when there's still a wide "pleasure gap" to bridge today—the term describing the slim number of women who experience orgasms during sex in relation to men—the main question is how.

Below, we consulted advice from across the scientific spectrum, from medical studies to sexperts to sex therapists, on ways to enhance the female orgasm and feel connected to your partner without giving up your primal right to come. Read more

Evidence Mounts That Yoga Improves Sex

A recent study found that yoga improved sex for women.

Five years ago, I posted a blog entry that described a small pilot study showing that after 12 weeks of yoga, men age 24 to 60 rated their sexual functioning “significantly improved.” I gingerly suggested that yoga might improve sexual function and satisfaction for both men and women. Read more

Try These 6 Yoga Poses for the Best Orgasm

 You should try the following six yoga poses for the best orgasms, says Donna Begg.

Yoga is an age-old technique that is used to increase flexibility and improve muscle strength.

Even though having sex is a natural part of our lives and all of the aspects related to sex should also come naturally, a lot of people are having some problems getting into the mood and maintaining the mood while they are having sex. This can be off-putting, but at times, it cannot be helped.

Medical experts have recognized several disorders and conditions that can negatively impact both a man and woman's ability to perform during sexual intercourse. Even though men and women can be affected by sexual disorders, it is important to realize that there are different problems affecting each gender. Read more

5 Magical Steps to an Orgasmic Vagina

 Adina Rivers shares the five magical steps to an orgasmic vagina (even if you don't feel much now).

A few years back, I could only feel clitoral orgasms with a vibrator or my finger. My vagina was numb and sexual intercouse felt painful.

Back then, I believed the female g-spot to be nothing more than a fairy tale.

I certainly didn’t know my body was capable of over 11 different kinds of orgasm, and that the areas inside my vagina which had been numb and painful, would later prove to be my most reliable gateways to sexual ecstasy. Read more

How To Have a Vaginal Orgasm

Anna Breslaw reveals how to have a vaginal orgasm or at least give yourself the best chance of it.

You very rarely hear women say they can achieve orgasm just from penetration, but like the Loch Ness Monster, the legend sticks around just enough to make those who are more clitorally-oriented wonder if it's worth working towards. And men put a premium on it for a few obvious reasons: (A) Porn and (B) They want to feel like their penis is a sexual hot-rod that will make you speak in tongues and throw your vibrator in a volcano. Read more

5 Ways for Women to Achieve Multiple Orgasms

 All women are capable of multiple orgasms, says Svetlana Ivanova, and gives techniques for achieving them.

While it’s true that too much of a good can sometimes be bad, that doesn't go for orgasms. If one is good, having two, three, or four is even better. Multiple orgasms means having more than one c.imax during a single lovemaking session, which could mean within minutes, hours, or the entire evening. All women are capable of having multiple orgasms. If you want to give it a try, using these five techniques one you reach your first orgasm can often lead to having more than one. Read more

What Is the Most Intense Orgasm a Woman Can Have?

Shakti Amarantha reveals what is the most intense orgasm for women.

This was a question I answered elsewhere, so I thought I would share my answer here, too. Some of it will be redundant for those of you who have read through this blog from the start, but it still may be fun to see it summed up in one place! :)

What is the most intense orgasm a woman can have?

I've discussed this question at length with many women and their spouses/long-term partners. All are very experienced with tantric sex, and all of the women have at least occasionally experienced real monster orgasms. Read more

5 Things Men Don't Understand About Female Orgasm

Kathy Benjamin takes a humorous look at a real issue: five things many men don't understand about the female orgasm.

What is the point to existence? Is Bigfoot real? How many licks does it take to get to the center of a Tootsie Roll Pop? These are some of life's biggest questions. But none of them comes close to the ultimate mystery of the universe: the female orgasm. For millennia people have tried to understand this exciting yet elusive entity, and in my continuing attempt to teach you all about sex, now I am taking up the challenge. I've used my own extensive experience, along with talking with over a dozen co-workers and friends, to come up with some sex tips you won't find in Cosmo or GQ. Read more

The 3 Gates of Female Pleasure

Whether you're a woman looking to deepen her self-pleasure practice or someone who's looking to better understand female pleasure and orgasms, this Tantric pleasure video is for you!

De-Armoring: 5 Steps to a Fully Feeling and Orgasmic Vagina

Babyfacc reveals five steps women can take to get a fully feeling and orgasmic vagina.

Those of you who read my last guest blog post know that I am more then happy with my sex life these days. It is over all my expectation on how great sex could be.

One of the most important steps for me to develop my sex life was to do a vaginal de-armouring, a form of trigger point massage in the vagina. I did my first one on a tantric workshop 4 years ago and I was amazed over the change I felt. After a 40 min exercise my vagina had become so sensitive and felt very different. Much more soft, or fluffy as I use to say. 🙂 Read more