Ever noticed how your footsteps sync up when you walk side-by-side with someone? Even if that person is a total stranger?
Yup, it’s kinda strange and most of the time, it happens without us even realising. But if this new study is anything to go by, the whole mirroring each other thing might actually be worth consciously putting into practice – at least as far as our relationships are concerned. Read more
Thursday, November 29, 2018
Lucy Bode reveals the simple trick that will boost your bond with your partner.
Tuesday, November 27, 2018
Jill Hamilton shares five exciting ways to spice up missionary sex.
Missionary sex gets a bad rap because it's the go-to position for most couples, but it's also a favorite because it's damn good: There's lots of eye contact, you can feel his weight on you, and it's incredibly intimate. And if you do want to spice things up, step up your game with some of these sexy tweaks. Read more
Saturday, November 24, 2018
Devi Ward says extended orgasms are magic and that you can experience on.
I want to invite you to try this ancient, unique and powerful self-pleasure practice
Very recently, I had the privilege of interviewing Steve Bodansky, author of “Extended Massive Orgasm”, on my radio show. His book outlines the practice of Deliberate Orgasm.
And I love, love, love the practice of Deliberate Orgasm! Read more
Tuesday, November 20, 2018
Svetlana Ivanova reveals four female pleasure spots besides the clitoris for couples to explore.
Clitoral stimulation is the primary means by which women achieve orgasm. That no doubt explains why lesbian sex is more orgasmic for women than straight sex. A female lover is almost certain to know what the clitoris is, where it is, and to have some idea about how to stimulate it. That doesn't mean that the clitoris is the only erogenous zone that can trigger orgasms in women, however. These four female hot spots that aren't the clitoris also have huge orgasmic potential. Read more
Thursday, November 15, 2018
Steve Taylor Ph.D. explores how sex can generate higher states of consciousness.
Because of its allegedly pornographic content, D.H. Lawrence's novel Lady Chatterley's Lover wasn't published until 33 years after his death, in 1963. But far from being pornographic, the book is about the spiritual power of sex, how it can free us from our usual sense of separateness and bring us a heightened awareness and sense of connection to the world. Lawrence spoke of ‘the strange, soothing flood of peace, the sense that all is well, which goes with true sex.' And in the novel he describes how Lady Chatterley's vision of the world is completely transformed when she's walking home after making love to her gamekeeper:
The trees seemed to be bulging and surging, at anchor on a tide, and the heave of the slope of the park was alive...The universe ceased to be the vast clock-work of circling planets and pivotal suns which she had known. The stars opened like eyes, with a consciousness in them, and the sky was filled with a soft, yearning stress of consolation. It was not mere atmosphere. It had its own feeling, its own anima. Everything had its own anima. Read more
Tuesday, November 13, 2018
You've probably heard of the G-apot, but what about the A-spot? Here's everything you need to know to find it and stimulate it.
The Anterior Fornix Erogenous zone is an area of sensitivity that is located at the back end of the clitoris, where the wall begins to curve upwards. The A-Spot is beyond the G-Spot, just above the cervix, and can be located during anal sex. It’s known as the equivalent of the male prostate; however, it can be found during PIV penetration and foreplay as well.
Only 11% of women have discovered this zone, which is quite honestly, a shame. We have zones, people, let’s find ’em and awaken ’em! Read more
Thursday, November 8, 2018
Try these nine Tantric sex tips to shake things up in be.
When the ol' bedroom routine starts to feel, well, a little too routine, and all those new age sex positions seem way too intimidating, sometimes it's best to start with the basics.
And given the trendy nature of tantric sex among trendy magazines and internet circles, we asked two experts for tips on easing into the ancient spiritual practice: Raga Prem and Ganga Prem, who are both sex therapists from the Brazil-based Tantra Yoga Lab. Here's a few tips they've suggested for mixing it up in bed: Read more
Tuesday, November 6, 2018
Lianne Choo shares twelve easy ways to keep intimacy alive in a relationship.
So what exactly is intimacy? In this context, intimacy is a close familiarity and rapport between two people. Being intimate with someone does not necessarily mean getting physical. It is about being emotionally close to your partner and being able to let your guard down, no matter the situation.
Intimacy is also about accepting the other person’s feelings, respecting their opinions, and the constant act of forging strong emotional experiences together. Read more
Saturday, November 3, 2018
Testicular breathing is a Taoist practice that can be easily incorporated into your Tantric practice.
"If the man has a sexual relationship with a woman and his seed is preserved, his vital essence is strengthened. If he succeeds this a second time, his sight and hearing will improve. The third time, all his physical disorders disappear. The fourth time he will begin to perceive inner peace. The fifth time his blood circulates with great strength. The sixth time he achieves sexual mastery. The seventh time his thighs and buttocks will become firm. The eighth time his whole body will radiate excellent health. The ninth time his life span will increase." - From "The Principles of Taoist Wisdom", by Emperor Tang
In this article we introduce an excellent exercise for the pelvic floor, which is meant to rebuild the circular muscles around the uro-genital area and anus, thus increasing the control you have on your erection and eliminating sexual weakness. Carefully practicing these exercises you will be even more prepared to learn seminal retention during lovemaking. Read more
Thursday, November 1, 2018
Tantric Sexual Union Meditation is a sexual practice from Hindu scripture.
This is a description of a Tantric Sexual Practice from a Hindu scripture, Gupta Sadhana Tantra, as recounted in the book: Spiritual Sex, by Nik Douglas.
“Woman should always be worshipped, firstly by washing her feet, massaging and caressing her. Then, by worshipping her mouth, breasts, navel and her yoni.
She is always to be viewed as the Goddess Shakti, while her devotee imagines himself to be Shiva. He should always ask her permission before having intercourse with her.
He should treat her with consideration and see to her satisfaction. And when he offers his semen as an oblation, as a sacrifice, it is offered to the great Goddess in the form of woman.
This behaviour leads to the acquisition of all desired objects, freedom from disease, the love of women and the 8 great occult powers.”
In order to practice this, I would suggest taking it very literally. You can create a beautiful ritual form of lovemaking, using the instructions in this quote as your inspiration. You will need minimum 2 hours for this ritual. Read more