Tuesday, June 15, 2010

Tantric Cunnilingus: Worshiping the Yoni

The Yoni or womb is the seat of absolute divine presence and power. - Adthi-Para-Shakti

Yoni is the Sanskrit word for the vagina. In Tantra, the yoni is a sacred part of the female body, which must be cherished and honored. Yoni worship is a very ancient tradition in India, which is still alive today. Both men and women benefit from yoni worship. It is an honoring and active participation in the dance between cosmic complementary polarities.

Tantric cunnilingus is an act of worship. This sacred, erotic ritual extends far beyond arousal and orgasm. Tantric cunnilingus is a deep, non-verbal communication between lovers, used to balance and harmonize the moods and energy of the couple.

The setting and your attitude are what make Tantric cunnilingus a special experience for a woman. Make the space where you'll be performing Tantric cunnilingus warm, inviting, and special, a place your partner will feel welcome and comfortable. Before you make oral contact to your her yoni, make eye contact first and establish a connection with her. You may even want to ask for permission or tell her how much you want to honor her in this way and how it affects you positively.

An appropriate position in which to perform Tantric cunnilingus is with the woman reclining in a comfortable chair with her legs spread and you kneeling in front of her. A;ternatively, she could lie on her back on a bed so that her waist is at the edge and her legs dangle over the side of the bed.

Begin by looking at your goddess’s yoni. Appreciate how she looks and how you feel about her yoni in this moment. Then smell her. Inhale a few really deep breaths, hold them for a few seconds, and exhale with sounds of contentment, joy, and gratitude.

Next, taste her, slowly. Savor her tangy nectar. Feel her texture, smell her some more, and literally ingest the body of your beloved into your own. Allow yourself to receive energy from her powerful second chakra.

Take time to tantalize her with light, tickling touches of your finger tips and then your tongue. Use feathery light tongue swirls and hot breaths on her clitoris to make her tingle and tremble with delight. When aroused, the lips of her yoni will become engorged with blood. As her excitement and passion grows, she will blossom before your eyes.

Lick her labia and lightly suck each of her lips. Explore the opening of her yoni with the tip of your tongue before sliding it in deeply. As her excitement builds, use the soft underside of your tongue to glide over her clitoris ever so lightly.

Listen to her requests. Give generously and attentively. Kiss her yoni often. At the end of the Tantric cunnilingus ritual, thank her for the gift she just gave you.

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14 comments:

VickieP said...

Who wouldn't want her yoni worshipped in this way?

Yours,
Vickie P.

Jennifer Lawless said...

You're right. What woman wouldn't?

SPG said...

Fantastic. You've created an amazing blog. Thank you for your gift.

Anonymous said...

It was wonderful to find this post on tantric cunnilingus. My wife and I much enjoyed reading it together We have been practicing our own way of yoni worship and we so we very much relate to the spirit of this post.

We do create a nice setting for our yoni worship sessions with candles lit and a fire in the fireplace. She will wear a loose dress and we will have her comfy chair placed in front of pillows on the floor for my knees. We will often begin with my brushing her hair for a while and then rubbing her feet with massage oil. I will then knell on the pillows and she will pull her skirt up and open her legs. I gaze at how beautiful she looks in the soft light for a minute and then she will gently pull my face into her yoni. What we now do is a bit different. I simply hold my face in her yoni for about 20-30 minutes. This is very peaceful and meditative for both of us. I experience a deep sense that my breath comes through my wife's body and that my whole spirit is floating in her yoni.

For us yoni worship is an important part of another aspect of our sexuality. We also practice ejaculation/orgasm abstinence so the specific pleasure of orgasm is only for her. Extended yoni worship brings forth her sexual energy in a slow gentle way that brings deeply pleasurable orgasms for her

Jennifer Lawless said...

That sounds like a wonderful, meditative way of yoni worship. Thanks for sharing it.

Dany Dragnea said...

Namasteji ! It is a problem if i practice only the yoni
worship,whitout lingam penetration ??

Jennifer Lawless said...

No problem.

Anonymous said...

After reading this I realized I had completed yr way to the T without any formal training lol...I was searching for info on five to ten minute long constant orgasm...

Maria said...

Tantra is suitable for female centric relationship. We practice Semen retention and Yoni Worship. He has three or four ejaculation without orgasm per year. His energy is great. He is concentrated to my satisfaction and he worshiping my yoni.
Every day ritual begins when I get back from work. He filled tub with warm water and scented salts for me. Soft jazz and a glass of wine is relaxed. When I relax and get out of the tub, he starts to kiss my yoni. and give me short cunnilingus. After dinner we talk, then we meditate. My yoni is his mandala. Then follows cunnilingus that last for hours. It usually takes an hour or a little longer, sometimes over two hours. In the end, I like the combination of cunnilingus and g spot stimulation. He lick and suck my clitoris simultaneously with two fingers stimulate my g spot. That give me very strong orgasm with ejaculation. We showering together embrace, and fall asleep instantly. My husband has a strong mental orgasm during cunnilingus.

Anonymous said...

There is a pride in giving good yoni, a quiet satisfaction that my wife has relaxed, accepted the worship of her sex and enjoyed what I have done. To orgasm freely, deeply and very hard, ejaculating on the tongue of a man bent on your personal requirements is hugely empowering she explains. It is the ultimate gift, the ultimate submission to the power of a goddess. Images in the mind, the sense of self are built through sensations as powerful as this. Possibilities, yes to enjoy another man carnally if she chose, to assign one yoni relationship to one and submit through another to the other, represents exquisite exploration. It is also full of trust. We are not bent on reassigning our roles. There is no rush, no hurry, no ultimatum, nor even a certainty that the path will take a particular route. Only exploration and pleasure for her now…this moment…when she dictates. We work with the rhythm of bodies, the potential of a woman to pleasure long. It is a moment when I know I can achieve almost anything, not bound by my own desires.

Bob Nathan said...

This is a very good article. Yoni worship is so sacred and beautiful. It should be done in a selfless manner. In my own experiences I have seen that yoni (goddess) always responds positively and rewards its true devotee.

attilashrugs said...

Why is it so difficult to find women to worship in this manner?
Sometimes I feel that women think men who totally fix on "penis-centric sex" are manly and I am perverted for seeking selfless pleasuring!
It's like a fool and his money! If you want it come and get it.

Jennifer Lawless said...

Yes, women are suspicious. You have to develop the relationship first, and then proceed with the Yoni worship. Few women want random men worshiping their Yoni.

Anonymous said...

It is hard to find a woman who can openly enjoy her sexuality and express her desire to be worshipped unconditionally. Sometimes things are simple around than what we perceive around us and there is no harm to try even if you succeed or fail. Men often take chances and do not judge themselves for failures but I think its not the case with most women and therefore they often are deprived of real pleasure. Since most women take enough time to know their partners, either they lose the time to enjoy before hard commitments or find someone who might be emotionally very supportive but unable to provide them the true selfless yoni worship. I met a woman a while ago in some orgasmic meditation class and she was very open minded and clear on what she wants. Only after 2 OM practice with her she expressed her desire about yoni worship and how do I feel about it. I am actually very fascinated about yoni worship and because of her open mindedness, I could really worship her the way she wanted. It was really awesome and I was like in heaven. With my oral touch she orgasmed 3-4 times within 30-40 min...Unfortunately for my job transfer I moved to a different city. But I still cherish those 2-3 times that I got a chance for yoni worship because of her.