Orgasmic Meditation for Couples

Can you meditate your way to a better orgasm?

When it comes to orgasms, does it matter whether it’s a solo orgasm through masturbation or a partnered orgasm through coupled sexual activity? 

According to Nicole Daedone, author of Slow Sex: The Art and Craft of the Female Orgasm, the key to enhancing your orgasms is through a partnered activity called orgasmic meditation, or OMing.

The practice of orgasmic meditating

OMing is the use of mindfulness meditation with a focus on finger to genital contact. The act of “OM” involves a 15-minute session where a woman experiences simple meditative stroking of the upper left quadrant of the clitoris by her partner. OMing is practiced in pairs, with the partner stroking the genitals of the other, and both focusing their attention on the sensation with the stated goal of developing connection and emotional resonance. Read more

Breath Your Way to Hotter Sex

The secret to hotter sex can be as simple as breathing. Try these pleasure-boosting techniques to increase your enjoyment tonight.

Inhale. Exhale. You do both all day long without even thinking about it. But did you know that simply paying attention to how you breathe between the sheets could be the difference between so-so and sensational sex? Give these Tantric sex–inspired breathing techniques a spin to feel more tuned in—and turned on—when it counts. Read more

5 Reasons Kissing Makes You Healthier - According to Science

Kissing is awesome for romantic bonding and just as great for your health, says Melissa Noble.

We know kissing as a social pleasantry, the appropriate ending to a date and a means of connecting with our main squeeze. The collision of lips and tongues that we often take for granted has a whole lot more bubbling under the surface than what meets the eye. Swine flu scares and mono aside, kissing actually does a body very, very good. Read more

5 Steps to a Magical Breath Orgasm

Layla Martin reveals how to have a hands-free breath orgasm.

Ancient Tantric Techniques for Improved Sexual Vigor

Here are several ancient Tantric techniques that can increase male sexual vigor naturally.

We men are great lovers of porn. And have spend so many nights (and days, and afternoons and evenings) watching Jenna Jameson being beautifully ravaged by tall muscular men, who could go on and without feeling the need to ejaculate.

Do you think you would actually last for as long? Not a chance. As per a recent statistical survey a sexual intercourse can last from anything between 5 -15 minutes. This means that most average men aren’t able to last for more than fifteen minutes inside their women. So even as your woman starts enjoying the motions and feels herself getting into the act your vessel has already tumbled, and you are just about take your first after sex snore. That’s fully faltu sex for you. Read more

Double Penetration: A Path to Enlightenment

Tantra teacher Janet Kira Lessin reveals how double penetration can be a path to enlightenment.

When you experience, as I did, two or more of your male poly lovers simultaneous entering you in tantric oneness, you open your inner stargate, touch the face of God and remember your source. As you embrace two or even three magic wands, the lingams (as we call penises) with your most sensitive inner sensual shrines, you feel ecstasy, get total personal and transpersonal recall. You drop concepts of physics, science and religion and instead zoom, as your multidimensional self, through space and time. You and the beloveds entering you merge with divinity, source of all inchoate forms. Home, you experience everything everyone told you as illusion and, at the same time, truth. Read more

10 Yoga Poses That Double as Awesome Sex Positions

According to Aly Walansky, yoga poses are not only good for health and fitness, but some can double as awesome sex positions.

Yoga is one of the best mind-body experiences you can give yourself. Naturally, it translates really well in the sack with your partner helping you build both intimacy—AND a better body.

So why don't we try some easy yoga moves that lend themselves perfectly to the bedroom? We love multi-tasking—and being creative.

From dead bug to child's pose, these moves are fun, exciting and yoga-instructor approved. And you don't have to be a total yogi to try these out either. Read more