Tuesday, April 30, 2019

Tantric Fellatio: Worshiping the Lingam

In Tantra, the penis is called the lingam, which in Sanskrit can be translated as "Wand of Light." Worship of the generative organs has been practiced throughout history. Evidence of phallic worship goes back 28,000 years - give or take a few years. One way for a woman to worship her man's lingam is to create a lingam shrine. Another way is to perform Tantric fellatio.

The Kama Sutra refers to fellatio as auparishtaka, meaning superior coition. This sacred, erotic practice is used to nurture, soothe, and relax. Its applications extend far beyond sexual arousal and orgasm. Tantric fellatio is a deep, non-verbal communication between lovers, used to balance and harmonize the moods and energy of the couple.

The setting and attitude are what make Tantric fellatio a special experience for your man. Make the space where you'll be performing Tantric fellatio warm, inviting, and special, a place your partner will feel welcome and comfortable. The most appropriate position for Tantric fellatio is on your knees in front of your god. If that's too uncomfortable, sitting on the edge of the bed or in a chair with him standing in front of you works also. Before you make oral contact to your partner’s lingam, make eye contact first and establish connection with him. You may even want to ask for permission, or tell him how much you want to honor him in this way and how it affects you positively.

Begin by slowly taking your man's lingam into your mouth as deeply as you can. Hold it there for a moment while you appreciate its hardness and length. Then, go on to perform fellatio on his lingam as lovingly as you know how. Remember to maintain eye contact as much as possible.

The rhythm of the movement of your mouth on his lingam should be sustained and repeated for several minutes and then changed in order to prolong the act. Alternate sliding the lingam in and out of your mouth, with “holding” just the glans in your mouth while encircling it, around and around with the tongue and then flicking the tongue “with definite force” at the opening at the end of his lingam.

Your man should devise a signal to alert you when he needs you to reduce stimulation to prevent ejaculation at a given time. When such a signal is given, slide your mouth away from the base of his lingam, keeping only the glans inside. Then your lips should be stretched tightly over the front teeth and the glans pressed tightly between the lips, to “squeeze” the glans, creating the numbing sensation that helps your man to control and prevent orgasm. Then the process of fellatio can resume. In this way, Tantric fellatio can go on indefinitely without ejaculation occurring involuntarily.

To bring your man to climax when you're ready, lock your lips on his lingam and suction them up and down the bottom three-quarters of his shaft at a quick, steady pace while pressing your flattened tongue against the underside of his lingam. Make sure you are applying pressure with both your lips and tongue. You can do this very slowly for a more intense feeling, but make sure you move at a steady rhythm.

The Tantric way to end fellatio is by accepting his semen into your mouth. Vedic texts contain many references to semen as a form of food. On an esoteric level, swallowing semen is a form of eucharist whereby the deity resides in the semen and enters the body of the worshiper. When you feel your man start to ejaculate, suck slowly and intensely on his lingam, letting his semen shoot into your mouth. At the end of the Tantric fellatio ritual, thank him for the gift he just gave you.

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Kiovanna said...

This post is amazing. I thank the author for her courage and transparency. Her insight on semen as a form of Eucharist cuts my core belief that sacred sexuality is the ultimate form of prayer. As a Tantra Coach, I agree that having agreed upon gestures to signal when stimulation should be modified is one of the simplest yet most effective forms of non-verbal communication that will enhance intimacy. Brilliant

Jennifer Lawless said...

Thanks! I'm glad you liked it.

Robert Burns said...

Please suggest further reading or coursework specifically on oral tantric sex.

Jennifer Lawless said...

My articles are about all there is.

Anonymous said...

This is essential if it intends to offer a tantric fellatio. Consume semen is critical part of giving lingam worship.
It is inconsistent Lingam worship and then reject or avoid semen somehow.
Consuming the semen is what to expect the worshiper and must be converted at the time of her reward and pleasure.

Personally for novices, I usually suggest to the worshiper: glans is transformed into nipple and she is transformed into an orphan.

Unknown said...

There are powerful Sacred Energies that can be accessed and channeled through the swallowing of Semen~ this Seed is indeed Spiritual Nectar and the man empowers Woman through this Nectar~ in addition, a man who learns to swallow his own Semen through controlled flow without uncontrolled orgasm, has learned one of the most powerful keys to raising Energy in solitary Spiritual Work~ OM Shakti OM~

Unknown said...

I especially appreciate the sincerity and the warmth that Jennifer uses in relaying this information.Though intercourse is great in all the positions a couple can use but fellatio wins the prize above all other practices.My understanding of this is because the penis is unique to that man. So when she fellates you she showing that she is loving you. Even more so when it is done with warmth and love. When I was younger one particular experience I had was when my partner stroked my perineum with a warm lubricant. It actually felt like it was an extension of my lingam. Another thing I would enjoy personally is to have a small prostate vibrator inserted into my anus as my lover worshipped my lingam. Another possibility might be inserting vibrating eggs. That way my lover could concentrate on the act of lingam worship.

Anonymous said...

Do you see clients?

Jennifer Lawless said...

I neither teach nor accept clients.

Unknown said...

This can be performed solo and can greatly enhance your Spiritual practice~ do not be closed off to this or even practicing with a (same sex) partner~ these are cultural barriers set up in our own minds that only serve to limit our sexual enjoyment and spiritual development, and these practices do not make you "become" anything or any label, they are only part of our growth~ also despite most men having this fantasy do not attempt to perform fellatio on yourself as it is damaging to the neck and spine~ the tastes and textures of the lingam and especially glans are extremely enjoyable on the lips, the tongue, and mouth, and most men have fantasized about the subtle caressing of their fully engorged glans in their own mouth with the sensitive roof of the tongue gently pressed against the bottom of the glans until semen begins to flow~ this may be impossible solo but these fantasies are fully realized with a partner who is in sync with your own Spirituality and Spiritual Development~ with solo practice I encourage you to train in the enjoyment of the taste and texture of your own semen and grounding this in Spiritual Energy Work~ you may use a vessel for your nectar, though as a vessel often contains other tastes and energies I encourage you to practice the controlled flow of semen into the hand, and immediately taking in the semen as a libation or communion, enjoying the subtle tastes and textures before swallowing, and even vocalizing sexual pleasure as a soft "MMmmm" as you swallow~ practiced ideally as a daily self-pleasure ritual, moving to practice with a partner will naturally become a deep desire growing within you, and a natural progression of your sexual development~ Blessings and Light~